Younger generations are frequently being criticized for jumping on the newest trends that seem irrelevant to any sort of benefit in their lives. From Myspace to Facebook to Vine to Instagram to Snapchat, and even Tik Tok, technology has created an ever-increasing divide between the younger generations and older generations. I am not here to comment on the practicality and benefits that Tik Tok can give your life. What I would like to do, however, is point out the value that these technologies can have in our relationships.
Since these platforms are now how an entire generation relates to each other, it can be very easy for older generations to become "outsiders". Yet, this does not need to be the case. Many older people refuse to become involved in or associate themselves whatsoever with these types of trendy technologies. However, I have found that people with meaningful cross-generational relationships (which I think are vital to have for any individual) are able to have these relationships because of their willingness to engage with a culture that is far outside their own. The title of this blog is mostly a lie. You don't even have to download or use Tik Tok to be engaging. Simply being open to learning new ideas, perspectives, and trends can invite in a host of new relationships to be formed. Closing yourself off from technology will only close yourself off from interacting with and impacting an entire world of people. For this reason, I hope to always be willing to engage with new ideas, concepts, or the most recent popular app release; even if I am not interested in or going to spend time with them on my own. I would love to know any perspectives contrary to mine on this, as well! Is this really a meaningful way to engage in relationships?
You tricked me; I was worried I would need to get a Tik Tok, but I'm glad I don't need to after all.
ReplyDeleteI think there are plenty of ways to engage with the younger crowd, and utilizing their social media forms is just one way. (Also, as with many things that old people try to do, I wonder how often the kids might think you're lame for having one if you aren't a teen.) On the other hand, if we can have conversations with them in class, especially prompting them to talk for the majority of the conversation, then we don't risk embarrassing ourselves on media. (We will embarrass ourselves plenty in front of the class.)